About Me

What I love most is helping people find new ways of being and transforming into the glorious life they are meant to have.  And I’ve spent thirty years as a psychotherapist doing just that.  It’s very fulfilling.

If you’re reading this, you’re probably looking for a way to deal with a troubling relationship.  You may feel stuck.  Unfortunately, we all get mired in relationships that aren’t working…most often with people we love most.

However, getting unstuck doesn’t mean giving up what you need.   And it doesn’t mean becoming more skilled at changing the other person.   Getting unstuck does mean finding ways to be different which have more authenticity and integrity.  It means learning new perspectives and skills.

I teach those skills and guide people through a self-development process that creates new perspectives.

What are you seeking?

Some folks come to me because I am a minister. Some stay away because I am a minister. And some work with me for years without knowing I am a minister. So let me share this:

I have absolutely no interest—zero—in getting folks to agree with my religion. I’m happy to share my thoughts but I don’t need or expect others to experience spirituality the way I do.

I am versed in many religious languages.  While I am a Christian, I speak Buddhist, Hindu, Taoist, and know a smattering of Sufi and Kabbalah.  Each language has strengths for articulating particular truths.

I believe everyone is a spiritual being.  I believe that’s just the way we are. You may have a keen sense of your purpose in life or you may feel that you have no worth to anyone—and sometimes both on the same day.  I would say that’s called being human and humans struggle.

If you want to improve a conflict-ridden relationship….or perhaps you simply want to change some aspect of your life, I’d like to share what I’ve learned with you.

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